Alright.........my frustrations were with the Invidia header I purchased, it was a great idea - but they tapped it pretty shitty in my opinion. The holes for the turbo gasket were slightly off, so I retapped all 3 of them. After putting it on and off the car 3 goddamn times. The stupid thing doesn't leak anymore.
Since my last decent update the following are on the way!:
Fortune Auto 500 coilovers with roller bearings
FIC 900cc High Z with pigtail adapters
DW65c fuel pump
AME TM02 Taper 18x9.5 +22
GT Spec rear adjustable control arms.